Who we are
Two minds, one vision: Empowering you to create a deeply fulfilling and intimate life.
Our Journey: A Path to Authentic Connection
Our relationship began with a commitment to deep exploration and intentional connection. For the first five months, we focused on what we now call Sensory Body Mapping, consciously delaying sexual intimacy and focussing on feeling, exploring and practicing real communication. Both verbal and non-verbal. This allowed us to become hyper aware of our sexual, intimacy and communication patterns, behaviours, and to heal from past traumas.
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As we thrived in areas where many couples face their biggest challenges—authentic communication and true intimacy—we wanted to understand what we were doing differently. We realized that our approach stood out from what we saw around us. Motivated by this, we began studying to deepen our knowledge and understanding, which we are excited to share with you through our practice. Our mission is to help change the narrative around intimacy, sex, and relationships and expand peoples understanding of it.
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We are committed to an ethical non-monogamous partnership where we embrace both our deep connection and individual growth. This type of partnership reflects our commitment to living authentically, in complete transparency, and from a place of profound love and freedom. Through this journey, we discovered how intimacy extends beyond what we were taught sex and commitment should be, is nurtured through authentic honesty, intimacy practices and clear communication frameworks, and expanded through radical curiosity and playful exploration.​
Our open, non-monogamous viewpoint serves to illustrate respect for all relationship styles without influencing your personal guidance. We maintain a non-judgmental approach, using our personal experiences to enrich, rather than bias, the holistic care we provide.​
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As a real couple committed to growth and exploration, we combine our lived experience and professional expertise to guide you toward true intimacy and connection.
SARA PUNT
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Intimacy & Relationship Coach
Alternative Art Therapist
Sex Coach
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As a Fine Art Photographer specializing in the aesthetic abstraction of the naked body, I have had the privilege of guiding over a hundred individuals through the transformative experience of shedding their fears and stripping down naked to create art in their most vulnerable form. These sessions have facilitated deeply vulnerable conversations about life, trauma, sexuality, shame, kink, love, pain, intimacy, relationships, insecurities, and what it means to be human.
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My approach has always been rooted in fostering a space of non-judgmental curiosity, where intimately exploring both shadow and light becomes second nature. This led me to study Sexology, aiming to deepen my knowledge and refine my natural inclination to help people reshape their perceptions of their bodies and their intimate experiences. I soon recognized a desire to expand my ability to support others beyond the realm of my art. Which is why I pursued further studies including Relationship Therapy and Hypnotherapy.
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Through many years of healing my own sexual traumas and breaking destructive patterns, I have enriched my artistry, deepened my intimate connections, explored my sexual orientation, and engaged in ethical non-monogamy. My involvement in organizing and hosting sensual kink events where I guided many to safely explore their sensual selves, coupled with extensive studies, trainings, and courses, has solidified my belief that the skill of intimacy is one that can be mastered.
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Certified in Sexology, Relationship Therapy, Mesmerism, NLP and Hypnotherapy.
Trained in Systemic Theories, Attachment Theories,
Body Work, EFT, Conscious Kink, Tantric Practices, Communication Frameworks and Open Relating.
BAS DE RUIJTER
Intimacy & Relationship Coach
Psychedelic Coach
Massage Therapist
I embarked on a profound personal journey to discover what it truly means to stand in my power, embrace my authentic desires, and cultivate genuine intimacy with myself and others. In previous relationships, I encountered patterns of poor communication, unresolved trauma, abuse, and a lack of true intimacy. Through dedicated self-work, I have transformed my experience, now enjoying relationships that honour and accept me wholly.
Practicing ethical non-monogamy has deepened my understanding of authentic communication, true vulnerability, and various forms of intimacy. It has reshaped my view of intimacy, sex, and my identity as a man.
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Becoming a Massage Therapist and Life Coach, and guiding numerous individuals in exploring their sensuality, has revealed to me the profound impact of the knowledge and tools I have developed. Recognizing their potential to benefit others as much as they have benefited me, my desire to expand my ability to help people through their limitations grew.
I pursued further studies in Relationship Therapy and Hypnotherapy to enhance my skills and knowledge. This additional training has strengthened my ability to support others in overcoming their limitations and creating the intimate lives they aspire to—lives where they can fully embrace their authentic selves.
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Certified in Relationship Therapy, Life Coaching, Massage Therapy, NLP, Mesmerism and Hypnotherapy.
Trained in Psychedelic Coaching, Body Work,
Conscious Kink, Tantric Practices, Communication Frameworks and Open Relating.